To Forgive

Yes we need to and should forgive those who hurt us …not for them but for our own peace …

This is something everyone understands but you have to admit it’s not of the easiest things to do

But the biggest mistake we make …especially the ones who understand the greater good in forgiveness is clubbing forgiving with forgetting and thinking they should go back to being the way they were before the need for forgiveness arose

Buddy Forgiveness does not have to mean forgetting or going back to the way it was

Forgiveness means just that …

Forgive

And more often than not

“Forgive and Let Go “is far better than “Forgive and Forget “

The “Forgive and Forget ” mindset is what causes the same cycles of hurt to be repeated again and again till a person questions the whole ideal of forgiveness

Good people feel guilty and bad if they can’t go back to feeling and being the way they were once they have forgiven the wrong done …

This is because of the bullshit association of forgiveness being clubbed with martyrdom …..if you can forgive …FORGIVE !

But if you CANNOT go back to being the way you were before …Honour that !!!…BE FINE WITH IT ..ITS OK !

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Because till we are breathing …we can try again

This or That .. The Divide

Where as we lived pretty much all our lives till about a year or so back calling so much of the not so good stuff grey areas …

It just doesn’t seem to be possible anymore

Right from 2020 masks have been falling off …it’s almost like the masks that the universe is removing from peoples souls have been put on people’s faces

Now we see what some of always knew .. that many many people wear masks …..

Suddenly we are connecting with strangers without knowing what their face looks like …

And suddenly the distances with people whose faces we do know and who we thought we knew well has become far greater than we ever thought was possible

It’s almost as if we are now judging people by their energy not by their masked faces or expressions ….

Because of the demasking of the soul ….

The divide has become so apparent ….

There are sides and there choices

And it’s only THIS OR THAT

The sitting on the fence in the grey areas doesn’t exist anymore ….

The making of excuses for one’s own or others moments of darkness and justifying it with the term ‘grey areas’ doesn’t exist anymore

Black and White

It can’t because the grey areas don’t exist anymore ….

There’s just THIS or THAT

Whatever the THIS and the THAT is

There’s just LIGHT and DARK

Whatever the LIGHT and the DARK is

That’s all there is

There’s no grey in between anymore

Our Most Valuable Currency Is WITHIN…

Attention ,Sympathy,Empathy,Time The most important currency we have !

It’s OK

It’s ok to love yourself

It’s ok to make yourself your own priority

It’s ok to let go

It’s OK to give up on things and people that make you feel you are not enough

You Can Do This Simple Thing Once A Panic Or Anxiety Attack Has Already Started

In these stressful and Anxious times everyone needs a few tools in their toolbox to stay calm 🙏

If you’ve ever got anxiety or a panic attack or experience stress please do try this

Explained By Me In 1 Minute

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At The End

We can learn a million healing modalities

We can go to a thousand healers

But …

At the end …

When a real problem ….miscreation …unwanted creation ….stares us in our face…….

There is only the ONE CREATOR OF ALL THAT IS that we can turn to….

The creator of all there is ….

The creator ….

The one God …..

Is the only one who can solve our problems …who can deliver miracles ….

All the forms ,representations of God, all the healing modalities of the world are just ways to open our consciousness up to the one force … the one …the creator ….who is the only one who can change the situation….who can help us …who does miracles …..

All the representations of God ,all the healing modalities …are just different ways of opening up the consciousness to connect with the one divine …..

At the end …The Creator is the ONE who we turn to

At the end ….

Its all just one power we are tapping into thru all the different religions,names,images,idols, representations and healing modalities …,,

Hangxiety

One of the most interesting words i have come across “Hangxiety”

This word caught my attention and interest a while back …

I had seen it used in some posts on instagram but had just laughed it off 

Its was only when life did throw some seriously serious lessons at me that i started appreciating this interesting and what i would call fun word 

We spend so much time worrying and STRESSING about bullshit people and things that dont deserve even a minute of our time or energy

Its only when we are EITHER faced with bigger issues OR have moved ahead from some situations and people and are really happy in our own lives that we realize that the previous small stuff we had been getting anxious,sad,stressed,depressed about was so damn inconsequential.

Dont sweat the small stuff is just a book you,ve read till you realize ….NOT TO SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF 

So if someone or something is not in alignment with your spirit and soul …….

Dont hang On!…… “Hang the Anxiety” …let go…dont stress and sweat over it ….

As long as you and your loved ones are safe,healthy , have food to eat and a house to live in …send prayers to those who dont …..be in gratitude…….eat ,pray love stay safe stay healthy …because that is all that really matters …

The rest is “Hangxiety”

Because we cannot get more than we believe we deserve

We have to first believe we deserve the best …in order to recieve it ❤️

Love And Looks

Even though its perfectly natural to get attracted to someone based on their looks …A “love” thats based on looks alone cannot survive the test of time

So many people become slaves to anothers looks and do not care what the persons beliefs ,values, thoughts are

And these are the very people who do end up paying a high price for a love thats as skin deep as looks ….

Looks fade …Hair gets grey shades ………….

Only a love of the heart and soul …will always remain ..❤️

Its high time we realized the difference 👊🏻

Love Is Love And Pain Is Pain

Most of us translate the pain someone puts us thru as LOVE …

But love does not cause pain…..

The more pain we feel the more we believe we love the person when in reality …All we are feeling is PAIN ….Which comes when the other is doing something we dont want ….which could be anything from lieing to us to disrespecting us to cheating on us or leaving us …..

Emotional Pain we feel in any form of relationship should be a warning to us to love ourselves enough to detach from the person or situation …and not an indication of how much we love the other ….

Love is Love …And Pain Is Pain

Understand the difference

StrongbyNatasha

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